The Loves Of My Life

This is a post about the most important people in my life - Rachel and Scarlett - whom I will talk about often here. In order for you to be objective, and for me not to come across as derisive or or unfair in various conversations and outbursts, I thought I might as well introduce you to them, and set the context up front.

Rachel, is my wife of ten years, and mother of our two beautiful children - Tori and Zack. Even though our relationship is totally f***ed up right now, I still think she is an amazing woman.

Scarlett, my best friend of five years, girlfriend for the past one year, and "ex" for the last four weeks. She makes my pulse race, heart beat faster, mind boggle, and she stirs parts of my body, heart and mind which I didn't know exist.

I won't tell you much about Tori and Zack, because they're kids. Except that I try my best to be a good father, and love both equally.

I will also tell you more about myself, but only when I think I can be objective, and not be either too self deprecating or alternately self righteous.

Being I

On a journey of self discovery, I pride myself of being clear, articulate and correct in whatever I do, and in relation to everyone in my life.

As part of this journey, I am seeking answers to questions that trouble me, confuse me, and often throw me off balance. Questions that question my self, and the very basis of me actually being truly clear, articulate and correct in whatever I do.

These questions will find their way here on my blog. Hopefully, people will stop by and share their thoughts with me and help me find answers. And at times on issues where there are no right answers, hopefully I will simply make better informed choices and take better decisions.

This is all about being better as a person, and being true to the "I" in me.